Post / Chat whores post here (2026)

[i_am_the_koi]

My experience with you is that you do what you say you will and can be generous to a fault.
If I were your mom my concern would be drinking and smoking but you have proven to be a dedicated papa and husband.

Thanks Mama G

Drinking is way under control. Binge drinker at the track and breakfast drinker when I'm exhausted to play through they pain. Way less since the back surgery because, wait for it, way less pain.

Smoking... Well... I get at least one vice in life right?

 

[i_am_the_koi]

ALSO HIIIIIIIII @tzrider

Also this

No idea what crazy things you've been up to or building but hope they're epic.

 

[i_am_the_koi]

We had one but it turned into a shit show so feel free to vent here.

Appreciate it

Wasn't really my intent when I popped in but the Joe thing has hit me hard.

 

[Das MotorRad]

It's a conversation my wife and I have had in a round about way, but that snarky fuck you don't give a fuck attitude is definitely something we have bonded about and like about each other. Is it the determining factor they keeps us together? Probably not, but is it a huge part of the koitney family? Absolutely.

Kids are 2, they like me because I can open a banana or a fruit bar wrapper. I just don't want them growing up and being handicapped in life because they emulated my dickish energy.

But if wife doesn't like the less edgy koi, I lose everything I have positive going for me just because I wanted a larger friend structure? She takes the house, kids, and herself out of the equation and that leaves me with... A less dickish attitude?

Risk/reward is skewed way hard in one direction and I've been struggling with it being worth it.

One of the tools I'm looking for from therapy is how to tare that scale lulz


Sorry for making the PW all heavy and shit y'all. there's probably a thread for this kind of convo.

My wife and I have the same struggles. I call it our sarcasm. We try to not be so sarcastic around our kids but it rubs off and we get to see that sarcasm in the mirror through them.

It’s okay to be who you are while also becoming a bit better than you were yesterday, the only constant in life is change.

 

[two wheel tramp]

Appreciate it

Wasn't really my intent when I popped in but the Joe thing has hit me hard.

I can see that. Y'all are a small and elite crew of NUTJOBS who think it's fun to stand next to a track in the heat watching people ride their hears out. Plus, in my limited time with him, I could tell he was a cool dude. I am sorry for your loss.

 

[i_am_the_koi]

True story.

He and I talked about this one night after his leg injury and I had my twinz. How small that circle got and the struggle.

We had a few late night dad chats but no where near enough... And I've reached bargaining for the first time... BOOM!

Suck it KR