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Good morning!!
Stiff neck this AM dinner with sis and step mom later.
 
I am frustrated at work. Damn technology of City Portals.
You need to pay the fee.
I PAID THE FEE. :mad
Reminder you need to pay the fee.
I PAID THE GD FEE. :mad

Reach out to a human. "Once you pay the fee let me know"
I PAID THE GD FEE... AND WHEN I GO TO THE PORTAL AND CLICK THE TASK IT DISAPPEARS... can I come down to the City and fix this? :mad

Crickets :facepalm
 
It was for me. The pandemic protocols give the lazy ones such an easy way to hide. I hate it honestly. The biggest reason I am retiring a year early is to get away from the :bs

I have another project where I need to attend a permit meeting and it is the GC holding it up. Pay the $539 fee please because they will not let me do the meeting until you do.

My client does not want to pay me the 5% markup on the cost when I pay it so we spin in an endless crap cycle. Been two weeks now. :facepalm

Can't wait to stick a fork in it.
 
Abacinator said:
I'm stressing out about this weekend. I've got 3 family members birthdays back to back (wife's 50th, step daughter's 18th, and bio kid's 20th, August 1, 2, 3 respectively). And I have no idea what to get.
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Damn, those are all some pretty big birthdays! Also holy shit that's a lot of LEO energy.

MY BICYCLE IS GETTING DELIVERED TODAY!
 
Abacinator said:
I'm stressing out about this weekend. I've got 3 family members birthdays back to back (wife's 50th, step daughter's 18th, and bio kid's 20th, August 1, 2, 3 respectively). And I have no idea what to get.
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That sounds like "an experience" gift for everybody together is called for.

Any good metal shows coming up? 👹
 
Abacinator said:
I'm stressing out about this weekend. I've got 3 family members birthdays back to back (wife's 50th, step daughter's 18th, and bio kid's 20th, August 1, 2, 3 respectively). And I have no idea what to get.
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Family concert day?? or... other adventure.

Good luck.
 
Woke up at 7 on my day off, decided to resist, slept until 10ish. Finally making coffee. Gonna start packing for Colorado once I am properly caffeinated.
 
Abacinator said:
I'm stressing out about this weekend. I've got 3 family members birthdays back to back (wife's 50th, step daughter's 18th, and bio kid's 20th, August 1, 2, 3 respectively). And I have no idea what to get.
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I do not envy your position this weekend, good sir. Best of luck to you. At risk of providing unprompted suggestions, I would consider:
Milestone Gift Ideas

Wife's 50th Birthday (August 1)
    • Spa Day: A full day of pampering at a high-end local spa.
    • Cashmere Robe: A very soft, high-quality robe for home comfort.
    • Fine Jewelry: A classic diamond pendant or a custom birthstone ring.

Stepdaughter's 18th Birthday (August 2)
    • Gold Jewelry: A delicate initial necklace or a charm bracelet to mark adulthood.
    • Luggage Set: A stylish suitcase for college or future travel.
    • Cash/Fund: Money put toward her college fund or a first car.

Biological Child's 20th Birthday (August 3)
    • Tech Upgrade: Noise-canceling headphones or a portable phone charger.
    • Duffel Bag: A durable weekender bag for trips home from school.
    • Event Tickets: Tickets to see a favorite band or sports team live.
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I would send wife and daughter to the spa for a day or two and, assuming he rides, take the kid on a motorcycle ride :ride
 
Abacinator said:
I'm stressing out about this weekend. I've got 3 family members birthdays back to back (wife's 50th, step daughter's 18th, and bio kid's 20th, August 1, 2, 3 respectively). And I have no idea what to get.
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Give the kids money a spa day for the wife or a cooking class if she enjoys cooking but definitely not if she doesn't.
 
Das MotorRad said:
I do not envy your position this weekend, good sir. Best of luck to you. At risk of providing unprompted suggestions, I would consider:

I would send wife and daughter to the spa for a day or two and, assuming he rides, take the kid on a motorcycle ride :ride
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That's sexist

All go to the spa, or ride, together.

This weekend violent femmes at Stern Grove
 
My bio kid and I actually went to a concert last night, and I decided I'm going to surprise show up at dinner on Monday with them and my ex. We've got a dinner planned for my wife Friday with some of her close friends but I just have no idea what to do for her gift. Stepdaughter is hard to shop for as well. She got a car for her 17th (when she got her license), so that's out :laughing Mrs got her an overnight hotel stay with dinner and a spa treatment but I'd like to get her something nice too. I'm racking my feeble brain!
 
Das MotorRad said:
I do not envy your position this weekend, good sir. Best of luck to you. At risk of providing unprompted suggestions, I would consider:

I would send wife and daughter to the spa for a day or two and, assuming he rides, take the kid on a motorcycle ride :ride
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All good suggestions. Mrs isn't into jewelry so I'm lucky in that regard :rofl I do like the robe idea though...
 
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