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ST Guy said:
Where did I say anything hateful? It never happened. Point it out to me if you can.

I have always accepted people of different races and ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientations. I have them in my own family and I love them all. For instance two of my brothers are gay. And I have nieces and nephews who are gay or suffering from gender dysphoria.

I am not a bigot in any way.

And for you to say I am a bigot without knowing a thing about me tells me that you are a hateful person. You did the same thing to me a while back and eventually apologized to me.
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What you said and your "apology" is not how you post so seems kinda empty to me.

Our disagreement before that I apologized for being a bit abrasive has nothing to do with this. That was a separate issue we cleared the air up and squared that up. That was all well in good.

If you think I am a hateful person, you clearly don't know me well enough. On the topic we're in disagreement about, I'm not going walk back what I said.
 
So…apparently you can’t point out what I said that prompted you to say I was a bigot.

And what you said in that other thread, calling me a psycho was another attack on my character. Which you finally apologized for. And I accepted your apology.

Now it seems you can’t point out what I said that you think makes me a bigot. You seem to throw out your accusations of character flaws without anything to back them up. So I ask you again, what did I say that makes me a bigot? If you can’t point that out to me, then your assessment of my character has no basis in fact.

And I have never made any apologies to you. There is nothing I’ve said that requires an apology. And if there is something I said that requires an apology, I will make one.

Be a man and show me what I said.
 
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Doing better. Had a good cry and reality check. Not sure what going forward will be. Property remains safe. W is up there and I’ll head back tomorrow evening.

I’m exhausted from dealing with men. Being talked over and yelled at and being told I’m not allowed back on my property. Finally got back up there but there is so much arrogance, then to check into my happy place only to have this on going more man talking at whatever wall isn’t interested in hearing it. Hours later it’s still going on- do not engage.

/ :rant
 
ThumperX said:
Doing better. Had a good cry and reality check. Not sure what going forward will be. Property remains safe. W is up there and I’ll head back tomorrow evening.

I’m exhausted from dealing with men. Being talked over and yelled at and being told I’m not allowed back on my property. Finally got back up there but there is so much arrogance, then to check into my happy place only to have this on going more man talking at whatever wall isn’t interested in hearing it. Hours later it’s still going on- do not engage.

/ :rant
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I love you, Gwynne.

I’m glad your place is okay for now. I’m going to continue saying heathen prayers.

I’d also be happy to see this thread go back to being a bit more kumbaya.

*goes rogue, presses buttons.* :laughing
 
You don't have to calm down.

But

Maybe Just stop posting here about the same shit over and over after you've been asked by the forum owner to stop
 
ST Guy said:
When someone calls me a bigot, it’s very difficult to “calm down”.
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Politely: you’re now dominating this thread. Budman himself has asked you to stop. The man has the patience of a saint. Multiple other people have asked you to stop.

Take it to PM. You have said enough and your continued arguing is to the detriment of this thread. You’re not making yourself look any better.

Gwynne has some very real problems and the bickering is chasing her away at a time when she could use some comfort from friends.

Stop being self centered. Stop being so stubborn.
budman said:
Mr ST.

If I may.
You fail at reading the room and knowing when to bow out of a conversation. You MUST justify your position when IMO you should feel fine about what you feel but really should shut up.

I feel awkward for you in those situations and because I am about your age I feel awkward for that.

Bottom line. Your opinion is your own, real strength is not having to prove it to others.

Sorry. The last two days were ugly here and it was because you had to justify justify justify.

Be happy and let this shit go man.
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@ST Guy i beg to differ. This was directed at you two full pages ago.
 
OK, I just saw Dennis’ post to me.

But, when someone calls me a bigot, I will defend my character.
 
I’m talking about my integrity. Not anything to do with trans people. How would you feel if someone called you a bigot? Without any proof whatsoever.

And I’m surprised at the lack of support for me from this community when I was attacked by Kurosaki. He’s attacked me before for no reason. He need’s a warning and a time out at the very least.

I challenge you all to point out where I was being a bigot.

And I’ve had it with that guy. Though I may accept an apology from him if I feel it to be genuine.

And for the record, he repeatedly called me a psycho the first time for which he eventually apologized. Now he’s calling me a bigot. I expect another apology and a cessation of his attacks on me.

I am fully aware of his status here as the forum darling. But that doesn’t give him the right to make baseless accusations about my character.
 
And except for a minor reference to trans issues that I made to answer someone’s question, I have dropped the trans subject except in my defense with respect to Kurosaki’s accusations. Which is only fair in my opinion.
 
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