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Post / Chat whores post here (2026)

:wave Greetings from the beach of kings.
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hat trick...
i_am_the_koi said:
Oh such the longer conversation.

Thanks, but realize that most of you barely qualify as acquaintances in life. Calling you a friend I just haven't met in person sets a higher standard of expectation to the relationship and when that standard isn't met, leads to depressive thoughts.

Can you tell I've been seeing a therapist? :laughing
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There are many people I consider friends I have not met in person who I would never call just acquaintances.

I do have many acquaintances but I have friends close enough to me that I would trust to help me bury a dead body with no questions asked and some of them I've never met in person. Some of them are BARFers. You're not in that group but we've both been around BARF long enough, I know a lot of your life stories and things you want to share with us. And I care about you.

What I do know is sometimes what you're going through doesn't have to be exactly what someone being there for you has gone through. I've attempted suicide many years ago because what I was dealing with didn't seem to have any end, a situation no one could understand because it was so bizarre. I see the scars on my wrists every single day. You know what helped me get through that dark part of my life? Some of it was talking to people who were just acquaintances but cared enough to listen and talk with me.

I was just trying to put out a helping hand feeling empathetic but if you don't want it? Then fine. You don't want any help from barely an acquaintance.
 
Melissa said:
bunch of turkeys just strolled by out here in the State Streets. How delightful.
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Are we talking wild turkeys that look like they never skip a gym day or domestic turkeys that are super fat and don't know Thanksgiving is just around the corner?
 
budman said:
Back to the Studio today.

Blabbing for hours is not as easy as you would think. :laughing
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Hmmm. I think one or two of my ex-girlfriends would beg to differ with phone calls that went to 4 or 5 hours. :laughing I think it's part of my profession where saying more is always better than saying less.
 
Waiting with bated breath for the end product. In other daily activities, back in the office sorting through 18 months of being completely distracted, overwhelmed and depressed
 
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